Paradox...Don't take things at face value.

This is something I really ponder upon...we all have many friends ,good friends who will always be at your side 'Supposedly' when u are sad or happy.But somewhere I feel that most of them are just imposters.They would say something and mean something.You must have found people hugging each other and wishing each other in a way as if they couldn't be happier after meeting some other person , and the moment the person goes away, 'biting their backs'.I find this all very fake and believe that a person should be true to oneself as well as others so that people around may not have 'High Hopes' from them because when hopes break.......IT REALLY HURTS.